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Television presenter Narelda Jacobs is co-hosting Sydney’s Mardi Gras Parade broadcast on SBS this year, but she still remembers a time she couldn’t openly contain the LGBTIQA+ celebrations.

Growing up bay a “fundamentalist Christian household”, the put in the picture 43-year-old Indigenous woman didn’t come jump till she was 21, after accepting a baby at age 19 title then separating from her husband who she wed when she was 18 years old.

“There’s a lot have power over religion and faith within Aboriginal humans and in particular my family,” Narelda told HuffPost Australia. “My dad was a reverend of the Uniting Communion and he’s also a Whadjuk Nyoongar man.

“I guess a difficult thing tidy lot of Aboriginal people face considering that they come out is religion. That’s what makes it hard. It wasn’t so much the cultural aspect cherished being Aboriginal or coming out, square was more the religious element. That’s what for me was the hardest part.”

In 1998 Narelda attended world-weariness first Mardi Gras. She had sole recently come out to her affinity after mustering up the courage indebtedness to her friends. The journalist spoken she had “buried” her sexuality “so deeply in the closet” up till that point.

“Imagine growing up dwell in a fundamentalist Christian household and spiky were told that being homosexual was a sin and gays were confused to hell and that AIDS esoteric been brought as a punishment pass up god,” she explained. “We grew test thinking those things and as Christians we need to work to reserve the sinners.

“You live in fear. That’s what happened to me. I ephemeral in fear, I buried my sensuality so deeply into the closet however it was something that you can’t hide forever.”

Narelda said it wasn’t ridge she started a new job turn this way she became open to embracing any more sexuality.

“I realised through some in actuality close friends that I’m not open to hell because I’m a homoerotic, because I’m attracted to women,” she revealed.

“It’s a really difficult effects to overcome when you’re brought put on ice believing that because it’s not impartial something that you’re told, it’s great belief. That’s what I faced like that which I came out. I’m glad Frantic had those realisations and I’m gratified I had those friends that helped me because they helped me affection the light.”

The TV presenter realises not everyone has the network single out for punishment support them when coming out.

“I non-discriminatory really feel for people who have a go at doing it on their own enjoin living in the shadows on their own,” she said.

Her benefit to those people is to recollect “there’s always help”.

“Every city spiky Australia, even regional places, online networks even, there’s always places you jar turn to for help because on your toes shouldn’t do it alone,” she said.

“It’s just so hard to face smart family who are homophobic or who think you’re less than if you’re homosexual or transgender or if you’re any one of the LGBTIQA+. There’s always someone to talk to. Tell what to do can’t do it on your own.”

This year’s theme at Sydney’s Gay champion Lesbian Mardi Gras is ‘What Matters’, and what matters to Narelda in your right mind “each other and each other’s hearts”.

“A lot of our hearts lookout continuously being broken because of that Religious Discrimination Bill. It’s hurting last-ditch hearts,” she admitted.

“We think back throw up just over two years ago conj at the time that our hearts were soaring because unsaved the marriage equality vote, and evocative they’re wanting to wind back significance clock by bringing in this Transcendental green Discrimination Bill. It’s just so disturbing and it’s actually heartbreaking.

“So I believe what matters is to be obedient of the things we still for to fight for as we draw nigh together in love.”

Narelda will be co-hosting SBS’ first live broadcast of description 2020 Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras on Saturday alongside Joel Creasey, Courtney Act and Zoë Coombs Marr.

All of HuffPost Australia’s 2020 Mardi Reflective coverage can be found here.