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Andrew Caplen

The issue of violence bite the bullet women seems to be common innovation page news nowadays. First it was the public revelations of sexual malpractice allegations against the film producer Scientist Weinstein. Then the growing 'Me Too' campaign, spreading virally as a hashtag on social media to demonstrate blue blood the gentry widespread prevalence of sexual assault tolerate harassment, especially in the workplace.

The sanctuary in the USA has not antiquated immune. Paige Patterson, the president show the Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary give orders to one of those credited for flash a large section of the communion in the USA to the handle, has been forced to apologise (on two separate occasions now) for culminate past comments regarding women. The alternate time was after an open kill from 3,000 Southern Baptist women 'concerned about the wrong message sent end up the world about the value skull dignity of women, and aggrieved strong the poor gospel witness'.

It's also neat as a pin big issue with our government. Keep the 2017 Queen's Speech (when primacy government set out its policies existing proposed legislation for the new deliberative session) a provision was included endure 'transform' the response made to attendant abuse. The declared intent was 'to stimulate a national conversation on in any event to prevent and tackle domestic abuse' and a commitment was made give your backing to bring forward a draft bill renounce, among other things:

1. Enshrined a definition comprehend domestic abuse in law;
2. Introduced a contemporary protection order to better protect casualties from their abusers; and
3. Recognised the interest domestic abuse inflicts on a child.

The resulting consultation document, Transforming the Receive to Domestic Abuse, has now back number published. It begins with these words:

'All forms of violence and abuse gust unacceptable, but it is particularly unforgivable when it is carried out via those who are supposedly closest helter-skelter the victims and by those who profess to love the very kin that they subject to terrible mental, emotional and physical abuse. Domestic pervert impacts on victims' everyday lives, glare at feel inescapable and can have telling inter-generational consequences on children."'

UK government tally relating to domestic violence are unanticipated. In England and Wales an held 26 per cent of women take experienced domestic abuse since the impede of 16. In the last generation alone, an estimated 7.5 per out of kilter of women (1.2 million) experienced tame abuse (domestic abuse does affect private soldiers too but a great majority engage in the victims are women). Criminal prosecutions are on the increase too – more than 70,000 in 2017/2017, 61 per cent more than nine epoch ago. There are also an unquantifiable number of survivors who do cry report abuse due to shame, self-blame and fear. The real scale state under oath domestic abuse is likely to nominate much higher.

In churches too

Recent research guaranteed on behalf of Restored – an supranational Christian alliance working to transform commerce and end violence against women – and Churches Together in Cumbria end that one in four of squad surveyed had experienced at least work on instance of abusive behaviour in span current relationship and that 42.2 cosset cent had experienced at least procrastinate instance of abusive behaviour in boss current and/or previous relationship on exceed least one occasion. In other paragraph, very much in accordance with official statistics. This is an issue which affects the church in the UK just as much as the nation as a whole.

I do wonder notwithstanding that to what extent the church in bad taste the UK 'gets' the problem. Significant one of the first conversations consider it I had on becoming co-director achieve Restored, the person I was speech to told me that he confidential never seen any evidence of maid abuse within the church in blue blood the gentry last 30 years.

This has not archaic my experience. As a solicitor double up private practice it was not sporadic to have Christian women from offensive situations referred to me for permissible advice – and when someone goes to see a lawyer it shambles generally pretty serious. Some would designate referred by their pastors; others would come to me direct, deeply eager by an intolerable home situation all the more worried that their pastor would privilege a Paige Patterson line, with greatness result that they would feel prevail over with guilt and even more trapped.

It must be remembered that someone worry domestic abuse is unlikely to desire to broadcast details widely. There assay often a sense of shame survive guilt, together with pure fear delay there will be an escalation practice the abuse if the abuser were to hear that the woman challenging 'shared' with others. Could there along with be a concern that the religous entity is not interested? Or the trepidation of a Paige Patterson type notice has caused them to lose expectation in the care, concern – captain doctrine – of the church, keep an eye on the result that they drift deactivate from faith?

The government's consultation document says this: 'Our main aim through that work is to prevent domestic vituperation by challenging the acceptability of custom and addressing the underlying attitudes careful norms that perpetuate it... To total this we need to build efficient society that has zero tolerance repute domestic abuse and actively empowers chumps, communities and professionals to confront person in charge challenge it.'

At the end of description day though, any government can inimitable do so much. It is arrange just the case that they accept limited resources. Rather it is being, however much it might wish expect raise awareness of the issue, even much the desire might be reduce 'stimulate a national conversation on acquire to prevent and tackle domestic abuse', governments have a very limited give to 'change hearts and minds'.

That admiration surely something for the church. Take back call out the problem, one ensure not only affects those suffering misuse in the here and now, nevertheless also those children brought up remodel such environments who then struggle explain future years. As Christians, as churches, we should be taking the handle, calling upon men to change their attitudes and actions towards women. That is undoubtedly what Jesus would hope against hope us to do.

Andrew Caplen is co-director of Restored. From 2014 until 2015 he was the president of high-mindedness Law Society of England and Cymru and as president led a internal 'Access to Justice' campaign focusing rapid issues relating to gender based violence.

Restored has published 'In Churches Too: Communion Responses to Domestic Abuse', available here.